Brainspotting Phase 1 Training in Hanover, NH May 4-6, 2018.

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I am pleased to announce that we have approval for a 3-day Phase 1 Brainspotting training here in Hanover, NH this upcoming May 4-6, 2018. This is a very special training, designed just for me and my new community here in the Upper Valley. This is not posted publicly as it is limited to this area (VT and NH). Please see the registration form below and come become a Brainspotting practitioner! It is a wonderful tool that enhances any current therapy practice you have, like CBT, DBT, IFS, Solution Focused, Psychodynamic, and the like.

If you have any questions or if you’d like to experience a session for yourself, please don’t hesitate to contact me!

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SECOND Introduction to Brainspotting Workshop, April 6, 2018, NH seacoast

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I am pleased to announce that I will be giving a SECOND Introduction to Brainspotting Workshop to the NH Seacoast region. It will be April 6, 2018, from 3-5pm and it will also have a refreshments/networking gathering afterwards.

It will be hosted by Naomi Rather at Whole Life Health Care, located at 100 Shattuck Way, Newington, NH 03801. You can register with Naomi directly at naorather@gmail.com or by calling 603-431-6677 x365.

There is also be an opportunity to purchase 2 CEs through R. Cassidy Seminars [link].

I am excited to help bring Brainspotting to the Northern New England region. Please don’t hesitate in reaching out to me if another region is interested in a workshop as well.

Workshop: Introduction to Brainspotting (March 2, 2018)

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Katherine is giving an Introduction to Brainspotting workshop on March 2, 2018 from 5-7pm hosted at Center for Integrative Health, 45 Lyme Road, Suite 200, Hanover, NH [Google map link].

To obtain the 2 CE hours that are available for attending this seminar, please register through R. Cassidy Seminars using this link.

If you want to attend and aren’t concerned with CEs, register directly with Katherine. See this flier for more details.

All healing professionals are welcome! There will be a networking and refreshments gathering afterwards.

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The Key(chain) to Non-Judgmentalism

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There is a tool I use to keep myself in as non-judgmental a stance as I can – and that tool is none other than my keychain. Yep.

Here’s the story. When I turned 30, my best friend gave me a birthday present. It was a sterling keychain from Tiffany’s. Pretty nice, right? But as I looked at the gift I noticed that the initials engraved on the tag were not mine, “KA” but instead were as pictured, “BS”. I look quizzically at my friend… ummm, a scratch-and-dent sale?

She says no, that she had the “BS” engraved on purpose. So I bite…, and she says it’s a tool she learned in Social Work school. That each and every one of us has our own “bullshit” and that no two people’s BS looks the same. And for each of us, our own BS is huge and difficult, personal and burdensome. It’s a tool to keep me (or anyone) in a place of empathy and non-judgementalism. Because if I judge someone else’s “stuff” as not a big deal, then I can’t see it from their perspective, and we lose connection. If I define their stuff to be “too”-anything, then I’m in judgement, and probably in a should-mindset that again keeps me disconnected.

It doesn’t mean that I have to understand or commiserate with the other person’s BS, just to be in acknowledgement of it. I think at the time there was a supermodel who was suicidal because they couldn’t lose 5-lbs. And I was very dismissive, saying things like “oh, come on now, really?” when my friend looked at me and I started to get it. To the supermodel, 5-lbs meant everything – like the cover of Vogue vs. a Sunday paper department store circular – whereas to me it meant nothing. But their BS is theirs, I need to acknowledge and witness it, and not judge.

And so still today, I carry this keychain with me every single day, for 20 years now, to remind me and to ground me as to how each and every one of us has our own BS and never to compare, minimize, or “should” all over someone else’s stuff. It actually works very well!

This is your Brain on Trauma

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Heart-MindI recently had the amazing opportunity to spend 3 days of learning and training with David Grand, Ph.D., and 14 local therapists, courtesy of the Resiliency Center of Newtown. They invited the local area therapists who have been working with the tragedy of 12/14 to further hone and deepen our trauma healing skills in Brainspotting™.

One of the most important take aways from those 3 days was the basic education of how anyone’s brain reacts to and handles trauma.

First of all, we all have experienced and will experience trauma in our lives, there is no escaping it. Rather than fearing it and suppressing it, though, I would like to share this educational bit to help everyone see how the brain works and can be served in getting through life’s unexpected events.

It is amazing to see how the 12/14 event brought everyone instantly back to the 9/11 event even though they are separated by 11 years. One wouldn’t think that an event so far removed would trigger an older one, but that is in fact exactly how the brain works.

When the brain is confronted with a traumatic event (and this can be anything from a national tragedy to a scheduled surgery to a personal assault to watching the bloody nightly news), it “self-sacrifices” a bit of itself and encapsulates that event, storing it in the back of the brain. It knows that the event is too much (personally) to handle at the moment so it protects you and finds a way for you to get through the immediate steps needed to function. But now there’s this capsule in the brain that is holding this terrible experience. Over time we fear touching that capsule, we go to great lengths to avoid it, yet it is still there.

Screen Shot 2015-02-08 at 2.08.24 PMThen another trauma occurs and it’s instantly as if the old capsule has been opened and added to the new event, making it seem vastly worse and unmanageable. In my office I call this a “sympathetic explosion,” meaning the new event has dislodged an old event and both are feeling immediate and overwhelming simultaneously.

In the above example I have only mentioned the 12/14 and 9/11 events, but what if someone has had multiple traumas in their life, possibly stemming as far back as early childhood? How then might a new event feel based on this capsule-opening premise? One can hopefully see how each and every individual has an utterly personal and unique reaction to a trauma.

We learned that even within the community, there are factions of “us” and “them” between folks with different experiences of the tragedy. Rather than comparing and judging someone else’s experience, can’t we come together and recognize that each and every individual has a personal and powerful reaction to such a huge and horrific event. There is no one experience that is more or less than any other seeing as we are all carrying our own unopened capsules of prior life events. As a community, we must become better at understanding this phenomenon and find ways to increase the compassion for one another rather than make it a competition.

As a Brainspotting therapist, I have a passion and a commitment to providing a safe and nurturing space for my clients to safely and planfully open and process old capsules so when a new trauma comes along, it can be a solo event and not one consisting of many capsules being jostled.