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Workshop: Introduction to Brainspotting (March 2, 2018)

Brainspotting with Katherine Allen, LMFT Posted on January 29, 2018 by Katherine AllenMarch 19, 2020

Katherine is giving an Introduction to Brainspotting workshop on March 2, 2018 from 5-7pm hosted at Center for Integrative Health, 45 Lyme Road, Suite 200, Hanover, NH [Google map link].

To obtain the 2 CE hours that are available for attending this seminar, please register through R. Cassidy Seminars using this link.

If you want to attend and aren’t concerned with CEs, register directly with Katherine. See this flier for more details.

All healing professionals are welcome! There will be a networking and refreshments gathering afterwards.

BSP Workshop Flier

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David Grand Explaining Brainspotting

Brainspotting with Katherine Allen, LMFT Posted on June 15, 2017 by Katherine AllenMarch 19, 2020

Here is a video in both English and Spanish of David Grand, PhD, at the first International Brainspotting Conference in Brazil. He explains Brainspotting hypothesis and how it works in clear and accessible terms.

Posted in Brain, Neuroscience | Tagged brain, brain hemispheres, brainspotting, Brazil, David Grand, healing, trauma | Leave a reply

The Key(chain) to Non-Judgmentalism

Brainspotting with Katherine Allen, LMFT Posted on March 6, 2017 by Katherine AllenMarch 6, 2017

There is a tool I use to keep myself in as non-judgmental a stance as I can – and that tool is none other than my keychain. Yep.

Here’s the story. When I turned 30, my best friend gave me a birthday present. It was a sterling keychain from Tiffany’s. Pretty nice, right? But as I looked at the gift I noticed that the initials engraved on the tag were not mine, “KA” but instead were as pictured, “BS”. I look quizzically at my friend… ummm, a scratch-and-dent sale?

She says no, that she had the “BS” engraved on purpose. So I bite…, and she says it’s a tool she learned in Social Work school. That each and every one of us has our own “bullshit” and that no two people’s BS looks the same. And for each of us, our own BS is huge and difficult, personal and burdensome. It’s a tool to keep me (or anyone) in a place of empathy and non-judgementalism. Because if I judge someone else’s “stuff” as not a big deal, then I can’t see it from their perspective, and we lose connection. If I define their stuff to be “too”-anything, then I’m in judgement, and probably in a should-mindset that again keeps me disconnected.

It doesn’t mean that I have to understand or commiserate with the other person’s BS, just to be in acknowledgement of it. I think at the time there was a supermodel who was suicidal because they couldn’t lose 5-lbs. And I was very dismissive, saying things like “oh, come on now, really?” when my friend looked at me and I started to get it. To the supermodel, 5-lbs meant everything – like the cover of Vogue vs. a Sunday paper department store circular – whereas to me it meant nothing. But their BS is theirs, I need to acknowledge and witness it, and not judge.

And so still today, I carry this keychain with me every single day, for 20 years now, to remind me and to ground me as to how each and every one of us has our own BS and never to compare, minimize, or “should” all over someone else’s stuff. It actually works very well!

Posted in Trauma | Tagged acknowledge, BSP, bspkat, compare, empathy, judge, key, mindset, minimize, non-judgementalism, should, tool | Leave a reply

Know the Signs

Brainspotting with Katherine Allen, LMFT Posted on February 10, 2017 by Katherine AllenJuly 19, 2018

This powerful video from the Sandy Hook Promise foundation elegantly and powerfully demonstrates that where we look does in fact impact what we see.

 

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An Idea Truly Worth Spreading

Brainspotting with Katherine Allen, LMFT Posted on March 9, 2015 by Katherine AllenFebruary 15, 2017

This TED Talk from Jill Bolte Taylor is the epitome of an idea worth spreading, the tag behind the TED series. Add to that, it’s about our amazing brains, and now you really have something.

Enjoy.

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This is your Brain on Trauma

Brainspotting with Katherine Allen, LMFT Posted on February 8, 2015 by Katherine AllenMarch 19, 2020

Heart-MindI recently had the amazing opportunity to spend 3 days of learning and training with David Grand, Ph.D., and 14 local therapists, courtesy of the Resiliency Center of Newtown. They invited the local area therapists who have been working with the tragedy of 12/14 to further hone and deepen our trauma healing skills in Brainspotting™.

One of the most important take aways from those 3 days was the basic education of how anyone’s brain reacts to and handles trauma.

First of all, we all have experienced and will experience trauma in our lives, there is no escaping it. Rather than fearing it and suppressing it, though, I would like to share this educational bit to help everyone see how the brain works and can be served in getting through life’s unexpected events.

It is amazing to see how the 12/14 event brought everyone instantly back to the 9/11 event even though they are separated by 11 years. One wouldn’t think that an event so far removed would trigger an older one, but that is in fact exactly how the brain works.

When the brain is confronted with a traumatic event (and this can be anything from a national tragedy to a scheduled surgery to a personal assault to watching the bloody nightly news), it “self-sacrifices” a bit of itself and encapsulates that event, storing it in the back of the brain. It knows that the event is too much (personally) to handle at the moment so it protects you and finds a way for you to get through the immediate steps needed to function. But now there’s this capsule in the brain that is holding this terrible experience. Over time we fear touching that capsule, we go to great lengths to avoid it, yet it is still there.

Screen Shot 2015-02-08 at 2.08.24 PMThen another trauma occurs and it’s instantly as if the old capsule has been opened and added to the new event, making it seem vastly worse and unmanageable. In my office I call this a “sympathetic explosion,” meaning the new event has dislodged an old event and both are feeling immediate and overwhelming simultaneously.

In the above example I have only mentioned the 12/14 and 9/11 events, but what if someone has had multiple traumas in their life, possibly stemming as far back as early childhood? How then might a new event feel based on this capsule-opening premise? One can hopefully see how each and every individual has an utterly personal and unique reaction to a trauma.

We learned that even within the community, there are factions of “us” and “them” between folks with different experiences of the tragedy. Rather than comparing and judging someone else’s experience, can’t we come together and recognize that each and every individual has a personal and powerful reaction to such a huge and horrific event. There is no one experience that is more or less than any other seeing as we are all carrying our own unopened capsules of prior life events. As a community, we must become better at understanding this phenomenon and find ways to increase the compassion for one another rather than make it a competition.

As a Brainspotting therapist, I have a passion and a commitment to providing a safe and nurturing space for my clients to safely and planfully open and process old capsules so when a new trauma comes along, it can be a solo event and not one consisting of many capsules being jostled.

Posted in Brain, Trauma | Tagged capsules, compassion, David Grand, healing, Newtown, research, sympathetic explosion | Leave a reply

Welcome!

Brainspotting with Katherine Allen, LMFT Posted on February 8, 2015 by Katherine AllenMarch 19, 2020

Welcome to Brainspotting with Katherine – the blog.

Stay tuned here for posts from Katherine about the brain, trauma, healing, neuroresearch and the like. I look forward to serving you!

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